In house s'ex and relationship expert, Dr Juliet Moses is back again with the top sexual positions women enjoy.
At
the risk of being tagged a feminist, I am yet again coming for my
fellow women folks. In my years of research, I have come across men who
believe sex was meant just for procreation alone and therefore, all a
man has to do is to get a hard on, climb on his wife and perform his
duty.
These set of men do not think
that apart from child bearing, sex was meant to be enjoyed by both
parties engaged in it. As much as a man wants to enjoy s'ex, a woman
should also be made to enjoy it because, let us be truthful here,
In
fact, some women think about it just as often, if not more, then their
male counterparts. They fantasise constantly and at great length. These
hot little fantasies can cover a broad spectrum of kink, but almost
always involve one of the five most common vaginal and anal s'ex
positions women enjoy.
This is due to a
number of reasons, the most significant being that they create a
perfect balance between level of difficulty and maximum pleasure. In
other words, these sex positions women enjoy result in loads of pleasure
for the minimal level of effort required to pull them off.
The
simple fact men should know is that when we’re getting down and dirty,
certain sex positions tend to get women more wet than others.
Try these:
Lap dance
Most
women love being on top for one simple reason: it makes them feel like
they're in charge, and power is always a heady aphrodisiac. Being on top
is not limited to one style, however.
If
you’re old-school, lie on your back and have her straddle your waist
before lowering herself onto you; don’t forget to lend her some support
by holding her hips while she rides you.
If
your woman doesn’t enjoy this style, it’s likely for one of two reasons:
she may feel overexposed during the act, or her legs might be a bit too
short to pull it off comfortably. The easy fix for this dilemma? Move
to the sofa. Sit yourself down, lean back and pull her astride you.
This
is definitely one of the s'ex positions women enjoy because it allows
her to brace herself against the back of the couch, giving her excellent
leverage to ride you to orgasm. She can even brace herself with one
hand, leaving the other free to play with her clit.
S ex position savvy:
It may be tempting to just sit back and enjoy the scenery, but if you’d
like to really rock her world, tease her breasts and nipples with your
tongue and trace the curve of her waist with your fingers; these moves
will magnify her pleasure.
The comfort zone
More
commonly known as the missionary position, the comfort zone is not to
be overlooked; nor should any man ignore its tremendous potential for
scorching hot s'ex. Yes, it can also be boring if only you refuse to add
spice to it or you are lacking passion and creativity.
The
comfort zone is one of the top s'ex positions women enjoy, and for good
reason too: the permutations for pleasure are virtually endless, and
none of them involve discomfort or the skills of a gymnast.
Take
charge: Lay her down on the bed, spread her legs apart by sliding your
knee between her thighs, place her wrists above her head and show her
what you’re made of. Women love displays of dominance in the bedroom,
and this one can be either subtle or overt.
S'ex position savvy:
Take it to the next level by talking dirty to her. Bring your lips
close to her ear and whisper what you’re going to do to her; let her
know she’ll be screaming your name before it’s over.
Stand at 'erection'
This
sexual position women enjoy is pretty self-evident in the title: your
woman is going to sit on a surface (table, raised platform, etc), that
stands level with your waist, and then you’re going to penetrate her as
deeply as you possibly can.
The further her
legs are spread apart, the better, and you can maximise this by drawing
her legs around your waist. This will place her vag!ina directly against
your groin, and will make deep thrusting incredibly easy for you,
thereby increasing her odds of having a G-spot org'asm.
Where
can you put this s'exual position women enjoy to good use? Try the
kitchen counter, the bathroom counter, the washing machine, the piano,
the hood of your car - get as naughty as you like.
S'ex position savvy:
Some men come relatively quickly in this position, thanks to it’s
deep-thrusting potential. Don’t be afraid to slow down and take a break
to get yourself back under control. Use that time to stimulate her
clitoris and bring her closer to the edge. When you start thrusting
again, she’ll be just as ready as you are.
Spooning it
The
spoon position makes for fabulous sex, and it’s really no wonder that
it's on this list of sexual positions women enjoy. A woman loves the
feel of a man’s chest against her back, she loves the feel of your arms
wrapped around her and she loves the feel of being penetrated from
behind.
She especially enjoys it in the spoon
position, because it’s incredibly comfortable and still allows you to
play with her breasts and clitoris, which, frankly, most women can never
get enough of.
Slide behind your woman, pull
her bottom backward against your groin, and slip her top leg over your
hip, drawing it slightly backward as you do so. Having her thighs spread
apart like this will make her feel deliciously naughty and she’ll
probably arch her body to give you even further access.
This is a very comfortable sexual position women enjoy, and you can expect a great deal of moaning to ensue.
S'ex position savvy:
Take advantage of this position by reaching around and stimulating her
clitoris, and don’t forget to talk dirty to her as you do; this is one
of the best positions for pillow talk.
Stoop do'ggy dog
You
may be surprised to see doggy style making the list, but it really is
one of the s'exual positions women enjoy. That said, the doggy style you
see in the average porn movie isn’t really what we’re talking about
here: we’re after something a bit more intimate and far more
pleasurable.
Yes, women do like being bent
forward on all fours and taken from behind, but they like it even more
when you bend forward as well, sliding your fingers between her thighs
and toying with her clit.
And women simply
love it when you switch things up by pulling them into a kneeling
position while you continue to thrust deeply. Women definitely enjoy
do'ggy style, as long as they aren’t made to feel like objects.
S'ex position savvy:
While bending forward, gently nip your woman’s shoulders with your
teeth; this area is very sensitive and most women enjoy being nibbled
there, as it greatly intensifies the sexual pleasure.
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